Friday, 1 March 2013

3 March 1983

We came to CARE clinic on that evening.
You might not remember as girls have a bad memory and me remember it as crystal clear.

Our parents were there as both of us were ill.
I was feeling weak as I suffered with fever the previous week and your family has a problem that you hardly sleep and let them sleep. 
I looked at your pink sweater and felt I need it more than you.
That's all I remember!!!!

Finay Say

We are meant for each other :)

Lets get married nicely in October/November and live happy life together :)

Surprises are wonderful only when you like them and you feel special :)

I am waiting :)

Mom

I am your baby

Feelings

You are My Everything

Wish

Want to be with you every moment

Saying

MATU LOVING YOU

3 March 1988

My Delhi Uncle took a new house. We all were there for the house warming function. 
As I was away from School, we came to your home to get updates on the assignments.
I saw you playing with a teddy bear.
I could not find any difference.

3 March 2002

Priya invited us for her birthday party FIRST TIME in her life even though she invites herself for all our birthday treats.
We wore same color dress (Blue and Red) on that day<That to we reached together>
Priya asked me suspiciously - "hmmm..kya chal raha hey???" I thought for a second and ignored her words.
You left with other friends on that day.
I felt ALONE, went to park and started thinking "wish MY Martina is there".

3 March 2004

I heard from Aunty that she wishes we both get into the same company or at least into the same city.
My Mom also said the same thing and added "Martina would take care of you as I wouldn't be there with you. She understands you so well"
I thought of hugging her and saying "Martina would be there come what may as I LOVE her and want to marry her"
But most importantly I shall express to HER first. 

3 March 1984

Its 7AM in the morning..

My Dad took me for a morning walk to the park outside the bus stand and your family was returning from your hometown. Your Mom was holding you in one hand and big bag in the other. 

Immediately you all got into rick but your shoe came off while getting in. My dad saw it and came to give it to your dad. He said thanks. My Dad smiled. I am lost in looking at a cat behind the rickshaw.

Awesome Time




Special Time Together



Wonderful Memory


3 March 2005

We got jobs in the same City. We are staying in different hostels and meeting every weekend.
We have new friends and new responsibilities ..
You expressed on that day you feel alone these days and thought I shall not take any more time and took you into my arms.
It paused for some time and I said "Martina I Love you and I knew when I was 12 itself that you are my girl. Mom, Dad cannot think of some other girl for me. You are the BEST and we are born for each other.

3 March 2003

Our seniors started to prepare for interviews to join some good companies and earning good salaries.
You told you would for sure get the job (next year as we complete graduation) and take care of family.
I am guessing like it would be OUR family.
That feeling immediately showed all the love, effection and care that your family has towards me.    
I could FEEL.

3 March 2001

New Century brought New change to me on that day when my Uncle who is close to me told that I shall finish engineering with distinction and join some big company. I asked him "what it brings?" and funnily he replied "you would get a best girl"
BEST??? there is already ONE.
I understood that I have to step up and plan my future in a right way to have a wonderful life with the BEST.

3 March 2000

We were doing our engineering. 
I was living a different life as I had to travel long to go to my college, could not concentrate on the studies and not liking people advising me also.
I was taking it easy.
I was sharing that day as we met in the bus stop as I got from my bus that I hardly enjoy studies and you also say the same thing (even though you still take studies as first priority).
How could I say I am feeling AWAY..

3 March 1999

Worldcup time and came to know you like Ganguly a lot.
Gifted worldcup pocket calendar with his picture to you (I knew I impressed you).
I like Preeti Zina but you didn't gift her calendar to me. 
I never asked also to keep my good boy image. I know it matters as you are a very good girl on all counts.

3 March 1998


Tenth Standard exams and our preparations were going on with both our families wondering what coincidence is it that we got the same examination centre.
We did well in the exams.
You came School first and everyone congratulated you.
I was so happy but wondering why was I SO HAPPY!!!!
Our Principal said "he feels proud of you and would miss you"
Yes I also would miss studying together with you..

3 March 1997

I started looking at you more and more in the classroom; more than Priya even though she used to give Chocolates to me every day.
You never noticed it. 
I wish you notice and listen from me that - you seem someone special. 
Told myself she wont like all this and may be once I get a job I could..


3 March 1996

We all went to nearby canal on that day.
Moms were chit chating sitting outside.
Dads were with us in the Water.
You didn't come much inside.
It was quite stunning to see you playing with your Puppy in the water. 
I felt my heart beat held for a second and I came out from water immediately.
My Mom observed it.

3 March 1995


I was addicted to Cricket and kept English exam preparations aside. 
Mom was thinking I would do well but I got class least marks.
That year I got 7th rank in annual exams and I heard this from you (small voice) in Summer camp
"With Education only one can stand."
I heard from my Mom that you got matured the previous month; may be she was absolutely true.

3 March 1994

We played Caroom on that day. Me and Aunty as one team. 
You and Mom in one team.
It was fun. I was making sure easy coins are not there for your team. Aunty said - I would become an Engineer. 
You looked at me and I gave some funny expression thinking you would be jealous. You just Smiled.
I missed very easy coins after that. May be I was lost and we lost that game as well.

3 March 1993

I opened my bag and found I lost my Science note book.
I had to prepare for the exam. I requested you for the book and you gave it readily and asked me to give the following morning without fail.
I said YES.
We were competing in studies but it never stopped you helping me in Studies.
May be that is the reason why Mom says - You are a Diamond.

3 March 1992

It rained like anything the previous day!!
We lost electricity.
Both our dads went together to give complaint.
I went onto terrace to see a Kite hanging on your terrace.Went running outside. 
Reached your home and took the Kite with some difficulty. Aunty didn't like me opening the gate and going to terrace without letting her know.
I got the Kite. It was all I was worried about.. 

3 March 1991

I was 8 years old and started playing Cricket in the street.
It was examination time but I was not studying on that evening. Mom was behind me saying Martina is going to get first rank this time. I told her - "Don't worry Mom. I am done with the preparation".
I smacked the next ball for a four.
I was confident..

3 March 1990

Our entire Street went together for a movie.
I slept within 10 minutes as the movie started. When I got up in the interval you were eating cup ice cream with dedication. 
Mom got popcorn for me.
I love Popcorn as much as you love ice cream..

3 March 1989

Teacher announced in the classroom that for the painting competition held the previous day, our paintings were nominated.
We stood and everybody clapped for us.
You were humble and smiling a bit. 
I was lost in the praising and looking here and there.
In the final results your painting got the second prize and mine third.



3 March 1987


Aunty told my Mom that Uncle got promotion and invited us for Sunday lunch.
Aunty gave Dal rice and Papad for me. 
I ate only Papads even though Aunty was showing natak anger and asking me to have Dal rice also.
Papads were Yummy!!!!

3 March 1986


Yes we were in Kindergarten. We joined the same school as its the only play school in our locality.
It was play time and I was running in the class room.
Suddenly I hit something and fallen down on the floor.
I started crying and few others also started crying with me. I remember a bit like you came with a toy gun and gave it to our care taker. She thought you wanted it to be given it to me so that I could stop crying. She felt proud of you (May be she is right).
I stopped crying before my Mom came to take me. 

3 March 1985

My Mom and me came into your street to give clothes for stitching to your next door tailor aunty. Your Mom said "Hi" to my Mom. My Mom offered a chocolate to you (as she likes baby girls) breaking my heart as I was thinking two chocolates she took are going to be only for me. 
/You took also with BIG SMILE\
I was selfish and more when it comes to chocolates. 
I saved this memory thinking some day as the friendship grows between our families it would be my turn to take your chotu Red Bicycle and ride for sometime.
It didn't happen as my Uncle from Delhi gifted me a Bicycle b.t.w I choose Red Color one which looks better than yours. 
Bicycle was my only play for few years.

Dear Matu,

I LOVE YOU.
I WANT TO MARRY YOU AND YOU SHALL BE MINE FOREVER AND EVER IN ALL THE LIVES.

I know its really crazy to do a proposal and that to of this kind now after two years of togetherness, understanding that we are meant for each other and knowing that we are all set to get married in October/November as god wishes. 
It might seem crazy but not to me. I am anyways CRAZY about special YOU, our special love, all special things that we do for each other and most importantly how we make each other feel special every moment. 
So this shall happen.

. We are IN for a LONG JOURNEY and already we have hundreds of reasons to feel we are destined to be together.
. We are from different cultures but it only made us bring all good things from both of the cultures.
. We are in different professional fields but it only makes us respect each other's work and efforts.
. We are from different backgrounds but it only made us analyze every happening to the correct level.
. We have different views but we wish to bring common VIEWPOINT all ways and always.

All great things start with god's wish and our meeting, friendship, love and relation are happening as per his wonderful script. It seems he waited for some time for us to have the maturity to take up the roles as Matu and Krish.
We are perfect for the roles as god wanted us to prove LOVE is not just boy-girl feelings. 
Love has the responsibility for the boy to take of the girl as his BABY, wife to take care of hubby as his MOM, girl shall take care of her family even after marriage, words sister-in-law, bro-in-law mother-in-law, father-in-law  are to be rightly replaced by sister, brother, mom and father. 

We are going to now show these things to the world by having a wonderful complete life together and sharing our love to next generations. 
After all ours is A DIVINE RELATION.

WHAT ELSE CAN I SAY!!!!

I AM WAITING....